According to the American Psychological Association, bullying is a form of aggressive behavior in which someone intentionally and repeatedly causes another person injury or discomfort. Bullying can take the form of physical contact, words, or more subtle actions. 

Bullyganism 

This word doesn’t exist in any dictionary. I coined it myself after a challenging experience with what I call "bullygans" during my time at a certain organization a few years back. It struck me how victims of bullying face relentless negative actions, often at the hands of one or more individuals. This cycle typically reveals a troubling power imbalance between the bullygans and their targets. Bullyganism embodies the cruel, intolerable behaviors exhibited by these despicable bullies. It’s time we shine a light on this issue and bring an end to such toxic dynamics. 

Why do bullygans bully?

Bullying can stem from a variety of complex reasons, and understanding these can help us address the issue more effectively. Often, differences in race, personality, abilities, and even beauty can be factors. Some individuals might face bullying due to their religion, while others may feel the sting of jealousy or insecurity. 

Interestingly, one of the primary motivations behind why bullies, or "bullygans," act out is because they have been victims of bullying. Those who have endured the pain of being bullied are more prone to become bullies themselves, as they often lack the tools to cope with their own hurt. Instead of addressing their feelings, they may lash out at others, projecting their pain in a harmful way. 

For many bullygans, the act of bullying is a misguided attempt to regain a sense of control. The feeling of power that comes from making someone else feel inferior can be intoxicating, providing a temporary escape from their insecurities. Ultimately, understanding these motivations opens the door to more compassionate solutions that address the roots of bullying rather than just its symptoms.

How do we stop the bullygans?